When it comes to wedding dresses, the focus is always on the finding. The process of seeking out and selecting the dream wedding dress is always front and center of the conversation. As it should be, right?

It’s a big, important process, and it’s a crucial part of having the wedding of your dreams. 

But still, there’s more to it than many people think. It’s not just about finding the right dress–that’s the first step. It’s about finding the right dress and finding the right alterations–that’s the real, less-discussed kicker. 

All it really takes is finding the right seamstress. 

And, lucky for you, Irene + Co Events has a go-to list of must-consider tips for sourcing a seamstress who can make your wedding dress dreams come true. Enjoy this advice from a pro!

Everything You Should Know About Bridal Alterations 

Pick & Buy Your Dress in Advance 

Of course, you can’t seek out a seamstress for a wedding dress you don’t have–so, yes, finding a wedding dress is the first step of it all. 

Here’s what I’ve got to say about sourcing a dress that makes you dizzy with excitement. 

• Start the search about one year before you get married. Sure, it will take time to find the right fit. But mostly, this is because you’ll need ample time after you’ve found the dress for alterations and fittings. Plus, most gowns will need to be created and need four to six months for that process (unless you’re shopping off the rack, but I’ll get to that in a minute). If creating the dress takes a few months and altering the dress takes a few months, a year in advance is a great metric for finding the right dress. 

• When you’re trying on dresses in-store, remember that you’re most likely working with sample sizes. This usually means dresses will be available in sizes 0-10, with the average amount running between 8-12. 
• Wedding dress sizes are different than normal sizing, and they typically run small. So, someone who might be a 4 in jeans could be an 8 in bridal. Usually, the rule is to add two sizes to your normal clothes. 
• Remember, bridal dress orders are final. Usually, there are no returns or exchanges, so make sure you absolutely love the design. 

Ask for Samples & Check Out Off-the-Rack Options 

Let’s say that your bridal shop doesn’t have a specific dress in stock, but they carry the designer you like. You can always ask for a special sample to be shipped to the store for you. The shop might not always oblige, but it’s usually worth an ask.

Alternatively, if you’re working with a shorter timeline and you need something quicker, try shopping off the rack for last season’s styles or discontinued looks. The plus side? These dresses are still absolutely beautiful and likely will just need a little attention from a good seamstress because they won’t be made specifically for your measurements.

Consider Your Realistic Timeline 

The alterations process usually spans anywhere from 2 to 4 appointments. Once you’ve purchased your dress, the process begins. Here’s what this timeline typically looks like:

• Appointment 1: A 30-minute to 1-hour appointment where your seamstress pins, tucks, and marks while you collaborate on what you’d like done to the dress and the fit. 
• Appointment 2: Evaluate the current changes and see how the dress looks with these alterations made. Maybe the neckline changes pull the fabric in a way you didn’t expect. That’s OK, things happen. You’ll make notes and ask for adjustments from your seamstress.
• Appointment 3: Try on your dress for final adjustments, and have it steamed and cleaned for your wedding day. 

For shorter timelines, it’s important to be realistic about alterations. You’ll likely want to pick a dress that fits you almost perfectly and requires minimal alterations. 

The best thing you can do is to be upfront and honest with your seamstress about your timeline from the start–this way, they can help you plan accordingly. 

Wedding Planner Pro Tip: Always wear your wedding shoes during your alterations appointments so you can see how the dress fits with them on. 

Think About Bridal Shops with In-House Alterations 

One of the best pieces of advice I can offer is to choose a bridal shop that includes in-house alterations. Usually, if you have alteration questions about a dress during the try-on phase, the seamstress can answer these questions ahead of time so you can decide whether it’s a worthwhile purchase. 

Know Your Options 

If you’re not sure what to ask for or how to alter your wedding gown, it’s important to familiarize yourself with some of the options. Remember, a talented seamstress can help you determine what needs to be done, but you might consider things like: 

• altering a neckline 
• adding or removing sleeves
• changing the skirt fit 
• adding a bustle 
• including a detachable skirt 
• creating a veil 
• hemming 
• taking in or letting out 

The average alterations cost anywhere from $500-$3,000, depending on what you’re looking for. The more customized, the more you’re likely to pay. Try to consider this in your budget when you’re purchasing your wedding dress. 

Detailed Questions are a Must Before You Decide on Your Seamstress 

If you’re still in the process of finding a dress, we recommend asking your bridal shop these questions. If you’ve found your dress and are seeking out a seamstress, ask them these questions. 

• Do you have an in-house seamstress who’s available for alterations? 
• What is the current wait time for alterations? 
• How long will this dress take to come in, and how long will it take to have it altered? 
• How many years of experience does this seamstress have with bridal gowns? 

Trust the Process 

The best advice I can offer brides who find qualified seamstresses is to trust the process. 

Bring a trusted support system with you to each appointment (like your Maid of Honor, a friend, or a close family member) to help you have fun and keep realistic expectations.  

Your Wedding Planner Can Help, Too 

If you’re not sure where to start with the alterations process, remember that a qualified, experienced wedding planner can help you get things moving. They’ll likely know the best shops to check out, have great seamstress recommendations, and can ensure you’re moving on the right timeline for your needs. 
As a wedding planner who’s been in the business for nearly a decade, I’m here to help. Reach out anytime with questions about alterations, the wedding dress shopping process, or planning your wedding.